There is a lot of sickness going around our classroom! It's important to encourage your child to wash their hands and use sanitizer. Also, keep talking to them about the proper way to cough and sneeze in order to keep germs at bay.
We've been working a lot on thoughts and feelings. This week in centers, the kids predicted the kinds of thoughts characters they know would have. When given a variety of choices, they predicted that Winnie the Pooh would think about Eeyore, Tigger, and Piglet. They know that one thing people think about is their friends, and Pooh was probably thinking about his friends. They predicted that Mario would be thinking about Luigi, Peach, and Yoshi because they are his family (his brother, wife, and pet). They like to think about their families, and that's why Mario would think about his family. They also predicted that a cute kitten would think about food, toys, and its bed. Some of the kids didn't know that animals don't have thoughts like people. They thought that the cat would be excited for Christmas. It was interesting to see and explain how animals are different from people.
Next we took pages from
Where the Wild Things Are out of context and predicted the thoughts and feelings of Max, the main character, and some of the Wild Things. The kids used clues such as their faces and body language as well as the surrounding landscape to figure out the characters' thoughts and feelings. Even though they weren't exactly right all the time, their use of clues was appropriate and accurate.
Today we did some role playing. A few children came up in front of the class to act out scenarios and the rest of the kids held up either red or blue thought bubbles to show their thoughts about the scenario. It turned out that the kids had red thoughts about humming and interrupting during instruction. They thought that a person that would do that was rude, selfish, and weird. They also had red thoughts about a person who, when playing tag, didn't stop to help someone who fell while playing. They had blue thoughts about someone who fell during tag, or someone who fell in general, though. They distinguished well between feeling bad FOR someone and feeling bad ABOUT someone. They did think that someone who fell should be more careful, but more overwhelmingly they felt bad for them. They had positive feelings about someone who asked for help when they didn't understand something. They thought it was good that they were getting help and also felt like the person who was asking for help would be happier after getting it. They also felt positive feelings about someone who would ask to use the calming space. They were happy that someone would get the chance to calm down or feel better.
I asked if anyone felt negative feelings towards someone who fell, like "UGH, THAT PERSON IS SO CLUMSY!" and they all said no. They even asked why anyone would think that being clumsy would garner such an "UGH" anyways! I also asked if they would think that a person who asked for help was not smart, and they all replied with variations of, "Everyone needs help sometimes!" and "Nobody knows everything!" The last question I asked was if they thought people who needed to use the calming space were weird. Again, there was some variation on, "Everyone needs to calm down sometimes!" or "We all need space!"
I especially liked this conversation because I know that at times all children can be self-conscious about needing something different from others. I felt really good knowing that the kids in the class seem happy that they all get what they need, no matter if it's something different from what they need. Even the kids who hardly ever need accommodations seemed almost offended that I would suggest that anyone would think that needing something different was weird.
It's nice to have such a kind and supportive group of kids. If your child is expressing concern that they are being seen as different, or are worried that because they need something that others don't, that the others think they're weird or somehow "bad", please use this information to help them understand that their peers are glad that they get what they need and are happy when they do. In the end, all of the kids in the class, whether they're best buddies or merely acquaintances, just want each other to be happy!
As a teacher, I don't think I could ask for anything more from a class of students. I love how they support each other and think of each other.